Ben Ofoedu, known as the vocalist for Phats & Small, recently tied the knot with aesthetics expert Vanessa Brown in a grand £100,000 ceremony in Cumbria. The 52-year-old singer found new love after his 17-year relationship with TV personality Vanessa Feltz ended in 2023 following reports of his infidelity.
A New Beginning with Vanessa Brown
Ben, who refers to Vanessa Brown as ‘Vanessa 2.0,’ celebrated the couple’s honeymoon in scenic Lake Garda, Italy, where they marked his new wife’s 30th birthday. Taking to social media, Ben shared moments of their celebration, including wearing a cap emblazoned with ‘2.0,’ which many interpreted as a subtle dig at his former partner.
Reflecting on his newfound happiness, Ben expressed joy at finally becoming a husband. In his words, “This is the finale of the chapter that was 17 years of my life. I almost gave up on marriage, thinking there wasn’t a lady who would walk down the aisle for me.”
Looking Back and Moving On
In previous interviews, Ben expressed regret over his past relationship, stating, “I wasted 17 years of my life.” He emphasized that his current relationship with Brown has been a revelation, adding, “True love is waiting around the corner—you just have to keep the faith.”
Vanessa Brown has also opened up about their relationship, noting their instant connection and plans for the future, which include starting a family and a business. She dismissed criticisms from the public regarding Ben’s previous relationship, addressing the negativity head-on by saying, “I don’t care whatsoever. She [Vanessa Feltz] is his past, and I’m what he’s found happiness in now.”
Insights After Therapy and Self-Discovery
Post-therapy, Ben has been candid about the lessons learned regarding relationships and personal growth. The singer shared how his break-up served as a period of self-reflection, enabling him to identify real friends and those who truly supported him during turbulent times.
From a failed engagement to a fairytale castle wedding, Ben credits his love with Vanessa Brown for helping him discover the life and connection he dreamed of. Now happily married, the couple is looking ahead to the future with optimism and plans filled with love.
